Is there a difference between escorts and sugar babies apart from costs

I have never met an escort before, but have been using sugarbaby apps for a while, as never been able to hookup with anyone at all attractive on dating apps after many years and have zero banter to hook up with some out in the streets.

Given how addictive the validation was having casual encounters on sb apps, I have gone through an eye-watering amount of my savings. And so I have been considering meeting escorts given the costs are far less.

But I'm having difficulty with the idea, as there is no process of approving of someones profile and looks, and on enquiring they have no interest in building any relationship just an emotionalless transaction, and so there is no reassurance for there being any mutual attraction and if they would have a mutually pleasurable experience.

Hence, I'm curious what others view differences between sugarbabies and escorts, if sugarbabies are less genuine as just putting more of an act on for more money?

And also am curious how others feel about their spending? As I have gone through so much, Im in a bad way mentally and don't what to say when everyone I know thinks I still have a massive amount in savings and if I will ever get a job again that will allow me to save like that again.

Hello Azimuth,

My advice to you is aa follows:

Sugar dating websites are great but only if you have adequate cashflow, once your money dries up you can kiss using those sites goodbye. Given how you mentioned you’re blowing through your savings, i wouldn’t recommend continuing down that path.

In regards to general dating, trying to find that with escorts is going to be extremely tough because they choose this profession to make money and having fun is simply a symptom of the situation, not the cause.

If you look at how things have gone for you, your path isn’t sustainable and eventually you will run out of “savings” to use, once that happens where are you going to get validation from then?

I would highly recommend you heed my advice on instead, use your funds to better work pn yourself, if you have zero banter, study trends, topics, read and join online communities that may not be “dating related” that way you can just speak to people. Once you’re confident enough you can try looking for platonic relationships and continue to build on your confidence.

If you require more advice i’m happy to speak to you generally about it but this would be a good start especially if it’s starting yo take a mental toll on you.

If you’re concerned with the spending aspect then continuing to spend wouldn’t be wise, best to go back to the drawing board and formulate a new plan

I hope that even with the craziness going on in the world you are able to find your footing and who knows? This time next year you might be dating someone so try to keep an open and positive mind frame

- T

Thanks T. Yes would be great to get more advice, but wondering how to speak more about that as am guessing it would remain on the forum.

It would be tough to do so, is there any channel i could use to reach out to you? Perhaps a spare email? Throwaway reddit account or anything of that kind?

- T

both are in it for the money, you need to remember that.

Sure my email is [email protected]

sugar babies are all about draining your bank account as you know Azimuth. Escorts on the other hand provide a service at a hourly rate.

It feels like there is a consensus, that despite however convincing it might feel connecting with someone on a sugarbaby app for a hookup, thinking they approve of looks and personality from messaging and getting replies, for the large part sugar babies are putting on a really big act to convince you they are genuinely in to you.

As long as there is a financial incentive involved, they couldnt care less about how you look and having a connection based on mutual attraction. That they will mostly go along with the interaction for the financial benefit, and all the better without having any obligation to meet with the intention of forming a real intimate relationship, for example if using a normal dating app, and instead just being someone to take out for dinner.

In which case meeting escorts is a more truthful reflection of reality. You are uderstanding and accepting its a service not based on mutual interest and not kidding yourself to the fact a large part of the interaction is an acted out fantasy. So on the scale of things its seem more beneficial to meet up with a good escort that will make you feel comfortable rather than meeting up with sugar babies.

Absolutely correct & valid point there, if you’re the person who gets off at receiving validation from others then sugar dating will be up your alley. However i can imagine for the most part, no female in their right mind really gives a damn about the male, only what they can provide and nothing more.
The proof of this is simple, take a guy who initially had allot financially to give, he will be met with praise, respect and admiration from women looking to get their own slice of the pie but the moment and i mean the “MOMENT” his situation changes and he no longer has the capital you can bet your stocks that 99.9% of females will drop him at a moments notice.

With odds like that ? How can you win with it. Better to just work on yourself as a male, increase your own value and once your ar a high level in physical attractiveness, financial stability and mental fortitude pick your partner wisely.

I can almost gurantee that what i will say will go right over the heads of some people but it can’t be helped.

- T

I'm guessing it all depends on what your looking for. For me its uncomplicated sex with pretty women, so I stick to escorts.

once you become a regular with certain escorts , the good ones (usually milfs) you can actually get the real gfe experience.

"With odds like that ? How can you win with it. Better to just work on yourself as a male, increase your own value and once your ar a high level in physical attractiveness, financial stability and mental fortitude pick your partner wisely."

good luck mate..lol

I’m what Range Rover classed and a MILF escort, hehehe , and over the years I have met quite a few ladies that offer sugar baby ... though they really should change that to sugar brats! They are in the game to rinse you of as much as they can, it’s kinda findom with out the Dom but with childish tantrums instead. Escorts on the other hand see regular business as good business, they want regular business and it makes sense to keep it. You pay by the hour to be in good company & have a good time, be it a dinner date or an incall.
Over the 12 years I have been escorting I have met some lovely people in fact my very first client still sees me on a regular basis! So you build up a rapport. There is also the bonus of an escort is not (or at least should not if she knows her job) going to call you in the middle of the night have a drunken strop with Cos she wants the latest pair of Louboutin (I had to look that up Cos I had absolutely no idea how to spell it! I don’t get the whole Louboutin thing! Lol!)
The sugar babies will dry out as soon as your savings do, you can trust me on that one hun

Xxx

well said mrsJasmineJones....

Jasmine sounds like a nice sincere person pity she lives so far away cos I would like to see her

Thank you to @inactive user,& @niceDavid if you are ever in the area please look me up ???