What is a GFE ?

I thought it may be interesting to hear from both seekers and providers as to what they define, think or believe constitutes a GFE.

He arrives late so you shout at him and sulk for an hour ???

Love it JuicyJan, quality! Well for me it’s the connection and touch, guess having a laugh and connecting, sounds mad but you can sense if someone is interested or not, along with delivering everything effort which helps! Still laughing at JJ comments, my ex to a T!

I offer GFE and for me that means, sex in a gentle considerate way but on many occasions it, with my consent/instigation crosses over into PSE. Much more vigorous, energetic, raunchy manner. Dirty talk, choking, exposing, spitting and that kind of stuff. I would never advertise PSE because I wouldn’t have wanted to do all that with everybody. It just happens with some. There is also GFE with ‘passion’.

Glad I made you chuckle Bevman
Hopefully us WGs deliver the dream GFE rather than the reality ?
We hopefully all want to give our clients an amazing experience so that they cherish the time they spend with their chosen companion ? it’s a ray of light in a dreary world for many guys sadly

For me GFE must include DFK, OWO, RO, chat, smiles that reach the eyes and a genuine feeling of welcome.

A GFE meet for me, is a bit more slow build up to fornication.

Some of my so called GFE meets may be termed PSE for others.

It's more about delivery of the booking than shenanigans.

GFE can incorporate lots of stuff, ie: anal, rimming, swallow etc. But definitely my thing is combined with lovemaking. Loads of deep kissing, being in his arms, stroking, loads of leisurely oral. That's my take on GFE. Friendly, welcoming and unrushed.

you give them what they want

To me GFE is not a PS experience. Neither is it a quick fuck, thank you very much and goodbye

DFK, fingers and a shag in whatever position are basics.

Sex like you'd expect with a girlfriend/woman who was "into" you and wanted to please - lots of kissing, oral both ways, cuddling, penetrative sex as a base standard, I'd say. Some GFE bookings have also included anal, rimming, gentle face-fucking, tie & tease, etc as well - but it's down to the way it's delivered.

I've found different complexions of GFE as well. I have three regs who are all GFE-style providers. One is like a FWB experience, very chatty, friendly and great sex. Another is The Good Wife - closer to my own age and seriously sensual. The other is The Mistress Experience (the old meaning, not BDSM) always in top-flight lingerie and lustfully sexy. All provide GFE (brilliantly), but in different ways.

I got pregnant on the implant when I was younger so for me that’s a no go. I hate the hormones too so the coil was the only real option for me really

Without a doubt and above and beyond all else - dfk, then lot’s of cuddling, after that it can vary for me but OWO I expect.
On top of this just a playful, smiley nature.. nothing taken too serious and taking our time.

When I’ve met Girls I always treat them like I would if they were my actual Girlfriend, I let them take the lead and would never make or expect them to do anything they don’t want to do, therefore expecting a GFE, I’ve met some amazing Women and some dreadful ones !!! Like to one who made me wear 2 Condoms and only did 1 position and kept looking at her watch ☹️ Needless to say I never seen her again !!!

GFE can have many services from FK,DFK minimum kissing, OW,OWO,RO many different positions and different levels of finishing from CIM,COB,CIP etc. The trick really is on the believable level that you are that special one getting all this attention.......when will you be back.

For myself, GFE defines trying my hardest to "being as one" with my temporary companion. Making and worshipping him like he is my one and only, kisses, caresses, playful yet tender. I'll be looking to make things special for him, flowing as naturally as possible with plenty eye contact.

Oral and sex is just a punt. Add on a hug , a smile, conversation and kissing (not a fan of french) it then becomes GFE.

I try to make every encounter a gfe

I've never really taken to the GFE term. I've more likened it more to a fuckbuddy type of thing. Just two people who are only interested in each other for sexual relief and pleasure.

yes that girlfriend can still be a naughty girl .. if and when she is imaginative it can be lovely as you outline Stefany ... ?