A nervous first timer, any recommendations (South West)

Hiya.

So I have “nearly” made a booking numerous times. I’m just nervous as to what it’s really like.. I’m a normal 50 yo clean, professional guy who needs a little fun!

So many questions going around my head, reading profiles so many times trying get an insight to what I should expect.

Will I be going to a private house/apartment or is it likely to be some dodgy building someplace, I guess its the luck of the draw?

Will the neighbours be curtain twitching?

Is it safe, are there guys around sorting the finances or are the ladies alone usually.

What is expected of me when I arrive - should I shower straight away?

When I shoot (it won’t talk long!) is that it? all over or… can I enjoy more touching and hopefully go again?

Shower before I leave…?

Am I just over thinking it… having watched to many American cop films!

If any one has any recommendations of a lady who would be patient and helpful in my situation, or if there are any ladies reading this who would be happy to help me please get in-touch!

John

I think unfortunately most of those questions would be dependent on the provider. The right lady for you should be happy to answer your questions and set your mind at ease though.

Relax, this is all about having fun, sexy fun. Yes it is only polite you arrive, showered, shaved smelling nice and on time. You will be greeted with a welcome smile, and your first sight of your chosen host. Just be yourself, there is no one but you two to enjoy polite chat and feel comfortable. She would lead if you her, just have fun and good sex.

Go for someone who offers GFE (girlfriend experience), be squeaky clean and just have fun!

There shouldn’t be anybody else around but just maybe pick wisely.

Feel free to DM if you need any advice xx

Sweetxelle can I ask where you are based

where are you looking for ?

call me

toggyjohn, please don’t be to nervous. if you pick the right person she will put you at ease instantly. i know i myself am happy to answer any questions someone might have and adapt myself to suite them.
if you message your chosen lady and explain you’ve never done this before and have a few questions before you book she should be more than happy to answer them all ;) if she isn’t then she isn’t the right woman for you and you message someone else.
i can answer your questions from my services but unfortunately all women are different..
i ask for my client to turn up clean and pre-showered on arrival, if it is an incall it is at my private house and there is just me there.
i offer something called a girlfriend experience which involves conversations, cuddling, kissing, and more compassionate sex with cuddles afterwards rather than just straight into having sex or doing a sexual act. i also offer a service where you can text me, and get to know me a little bit more before we meet - to put your mind at ease further :)
please remember safety is key for both yourself and the lady your meeting.. so asking questions is ok!

if you have anything else you’d like to ask - please feel free to send me a private message sexy

where in the SW are you looking?

Did you take the plunge ?

A nice tantric massage would be a good way for you to begin.

sounds perfect...

Just follow the advice in the newbie threads and you'll be fine

Same here, totally new just need some fun and experience thing that my wife just refuses to indulge in....nearly made sooooo many booking but I just can't seem to proceed......anyone in the Essex area have any pointers

Well finally took the plunge....sent a message to a girl, no reply, sent a message to another girl, no reply, sent a message to a 3rd girl, still no reply, called a girl, as she states in her profile that she doesn't respond to messages, she didn't pick up.

It took me ages to build up the courage to finally make contact and from 4 girls I didn't even get a single response!!!!!!

So as JoeDeeFoster said, in another thread "what's the point?"

Guesswho65, did you message through the site or via text message. Texts normally give better results as the girls aren't on the site 24/7. Many won't reply if they are already in a booking and don't see the message until later for discretion. Last thing I'd want is texts coming through hours later when im sat at home with the other half.

Nathan hook, thanks for that. I message via text/SMS and I understand exactly what you are saying.

There was an instance where a girls said she did like texts and preferred a call. I tried calling, she didn't pick so I assumed she may well be busy but followed it up with a text (from the same number) as when it would be convenient to call.....never heard a dicky, as they say

There is also a lot of old inactive profiles on the site, that's pretty much a problem whichever escort site you use. That might also be part of the problem. Personally have had that problem but have always found a girl I've wanted to visit which had replied.

look for escorts with a gallery and post in the forums, thats a good start.

Being nervous is natural to begin with, it gets easier once you understand the ground rules.