New to this

Totally new here and 1st time doing something like this. Only here because I want to experience Anal and CIM, both of which my wife of 15 years won't accommodate. The issue I'm having is that the girls won't respond to messages and if they do it's only 1 or 2 words or they appear rude. They all say best GFE but yet they come across quite abrupt.

I have the highest of rest for women and expect the same in return but when they come across in such a manner, it tends to put me off. I totally understand that to the girls it's just a job but then don't mention words like GFE, sincere, kind etc if you are not.

Can anyone recommend a girls in the Essex area that is actually kind and polite?

Thanks

www.adultseek.com/clactonsclass- cim but no anal.
www.adultseek.com/BarbieEnglishVioletXo does both
hwww.adultseek.com/CumSlutRach does both
www.adultseek.com/stefanyhotty cim no anal

Just how many newbie threads do we need asking the same questions ?

At least 100

All that replied with help and advise, I thank you.

Just a quick update, last Sunday I finally arranged an advance booking for this Saturday 13th at 9PM with a lady called luanaredhair, found her profile on here. We had a discussion via whats app, told her it was my 1st time and that I wanted to experience A levels and CIM. Here rate is £150 on AS but she quoted me £200 plus an additional £50 for A levels. I accepted her £250 rate and advised her that Croydon is around an hour's drive from my location, so it was going to be a special trip. I finally asked her not to forget to send me her full address and also if she still looked the same as the photos in AS. She never replied to either of these messages. To be honest I thought no more of it.

The Thursday prior to my appointment, I sent her another whats app message asking if everything was still ok for Saturday, to which I received no reply. Meanwhile I started preparing myself, Luana would be the 1st woman I have slept with, other than my wife, in 15 years and the only reason I chose to meet with an escort is because my wife won't indulge in A levels or CIM, both of which I would like to experience.

I shaved my private parts, armpits, had my hair cut, bought Viagra (insurance policy), bought mouth spray so that my breath was fresh for Luana. Saturday (today) finally arrived. I messaged Luana around 12 in the afternoon wanting confirmation of our appointment as I hadn't received any replies to 3 of my previous messages.......needless to say, she never responded and the meet didn't go ahead !!!!!

Am I looking to much into this escort thing? I am a very sensual person, I don't just want to fuck, I want to make love and therefore I am fussy with the girls appearance and nature. I am a gentleman that respects woman but maybe I over respect them, I certainly don't like being treated the way Luana has treated me!!!! Maybe this isn't for me

which one ?

www.adultseek.com/AOLLuana- with 0 feedback and a classic agency bait / switch profile.

or

www.adultseek.com/Luanaredhair- with 0 feedback and a typical bot/ scam profile

welcome, look forward to seeing your complete gallery

Getting pretty common this ghosting thing

Getting pretty common this ghosting thing

I just dont see the point of it !

whats ghosting ?

Guesswho65.….I too wanted something a bit more than wham, bam thanks..ghosting is where you talk, hit it off then nothing, as if you are a ghost. It winds me up. I started with a lovely girl who wasn't even found on here and I can't seem to find again. There have been good bad and some very very rude ones in between. If I were you, I'd not be so disheartened by it but learn from it.. find a few, meet them, give them no more than an hour, that's enough to really see. I love to French kiss and go down and do the oral thing. Most don't FK. So my aim is find one that does! Good luck 🤞

not a big fan of french kissing think its kinda weird

Anal gets me to orgasm faster than anything else but it has to be done right, lots of foreplay first.

I'm new to this too and sad to hear how some girls aren't what you expected them to be but I promise you, we're not all the same so please don't let it put you off having some fun for yourself. I would have came to see you if I was in Essex :)

I love French Kissing. For me, kissing is the core around the rest of the passion. It makes it extremely intense! Xx

have you tried the search function?

which many have no skill at

I’m looking for the same in Manchester

you are not going to find that hard in manchester

A lot of escorts can seem aprupt in the booking stage because we get a lot of timewasters, 20 question guys who haven't read the profile and fantasy bookers so it's usual that things are kept professional and short. Your GFE starts in your booking not whilst booking.