Sending photo of yourself in advance?

Kev40ish
Kev40ish
6 posts. Member since Feb 2023
2nd Jun '23 - 01:49AM
So I met a now non advertising girl that would be UTC if she did advertise again. Came about by another girl in the area who said her friend might be interested so I met her and she was excellent.

Young, fit, great service and we swapped numbers at the end so we didn’t have to go through the other girl to arrange things next time.

It’s now been a while since that meet and she’s forgotten who I was but had a good description of me. She tried asking effectively for a deposit which I explained wouldn’t happen. Then she said she couldn’t remember me properly so asked for a photo and insisted on it for her safety. I get that, I really do, however I’m not one for sending out my photo to escorts, utc or otherwise. To try to make it more attractive to me she suggested we FaceTime quickly.

Would you send her a photo/face time? For me, it’s just too easy to save the photo, take a screenshot and then the risk is blackmail or similar…

It’s a shame as she was absolutely great in so many ways. But a deposit isn’t happening and neither is a photo.

And before anyone messages/requests her number, that isn’t happening as I don’t have permission nor will be seeking it. As I said she doesn’t advertise anywhere herself, at the moment.
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SuprGuy
SuprGuy
26 posts. Member since May 2023
2nd Jun '23 - 02:14AM
You met her before without a deposit or photo and it was a good meet. She even somewhat remembers you. This time, she asks for a deposit and you said no (smart). Now she wants a photo or face time. What does your gut tell you?

Sounds dodgy AF to me. Of course, just an opinion.
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PolishmyKnob
PolishmyKnob
7 posts. Member since Nov 2021
3rd Jun '23 - 00:12AM
Not a chance.

Insisting on it "for her safety" is a bullshit argument. What about your safety from blackmail and/or identity theft?

I understand escorting carries risk but so does punting and too many escorts refuse to acknowledge that.

There has to be a mutual degree of trust. If not, my time is being wasted.
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TheShepard
TheShepard
8 posts. Member since Mar 2022
3rd Jun '23 - 11:12AM
no way on the photo
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Adam99
Adam99
7 posts. Member since Sep 2021
3rd Jun '23 - 23:55PM
no need to its on my profile
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sprinkles
sprinkles
2 posts. Member since Jun 2023
4th Jun '23 - 13:33PM
not sure I'd be ok with that
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JohnieSmith
JohnieSmith
9 posts. Member since Dec 2021
4th Jun '23 - 21:20PM
most women say that I have a face they would rather forget so I cant see why they would want a photo of it.
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Bothways
Bothways
4 posts. Member since Jun 2023
14th Aug '23 - 10:37AM
Kev40ish wrote:
So I met a now non advertising girl that would be UTC if she did advertise again. Came about by another girl in the area who said her friend might be interested so I met her and she was excellent.

Young, fit, great service and we swapped numbers at the end so we didn’t have to go through the other girl to arrange things next time.

It’s now been a while since that meet and she’s forgotten who I was but had a good description of me. She tried asking effectively for a deposit which I explained wouldn’t happen. Then she said she couldn’t remember me properly so asked for a photo and insisted on it for her safety. I get that, I really do, however I’m not one for sending out my photo to escorts, utc or otherwise. To try to make it more attractive to me she suggested we FaceTime quickly.

Would you send her a photo/face time? For me, it’s just too easy to save the photo, take a screenshot and then the risk is blackmail or similar…

It’s a shame as she was absolutely great in so many ways. But a deposit isn’t happening and neither is a photo.

And before anyone messages/requests her number, that isn’t happening as I don’t have permission nor will be seeking it. As I said she doesn’t advertise anywhere herself, at the moment.


if you had it on your profile it wouldnt be a problem
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TigerCool
TigerCool
9 posts. Member since Sep 2021
26th Aug '23 - 06:45AM
PolishmyKnob wrote:
Not a chance.

Insisting on it "for her safety" is a bullshit argument. What about your safety from blackmail and/or identity theft?

I understand escorting carries risk but so does punting and too many escorts refuse to acknowledge that.

There has to be a mutual degree of trust. If not, my time is being wasted.


Nailed it 👌
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Akali
Akali
7 posts. Member since Feb 2020
12th Sep '23 - 09:32AM
I dont have any real concerns about this for obvious reasons.
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Top
4 posts. Member since Jun 2023
11th Oct '23 - 07:00AM
I dont understand why I would need to
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AvgJoe
AvgJoe
2 posts. Member since Nov 2023
20th Nov '23 - 20:03PM
JohnieSmith wrote:
most women say that I have a face they would rather forget so I cant see why they would want a photo of it.


They say the same about my dick as my face, totally forgetable 😔
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PostmanPatric
PostmanPatric
10 posts. Member since Jul 2020
12th Dec '23 - 09:07AM
why on earth do they need a photo of you first, don't get it.
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Johnsson
Johnsson
6 posts. Member since Jun 2023
15th Jan '24 - 15:35PM
PolishmyKnob wrote:
Not a chance.

Insisting on it "for her safety" is a bullshit argument. What about your safety from blackmail and/or identity theft?

I understand escorting carries risk but so does punting and too many escorts refuse to acknowledge that.

There has to be a mutual degree of trust. If not, my time is being wasted.


Fail to see any valid justification for them requiring a photo and if I was asked it would be a NO.
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