1st time. Apprehensive. Need guidance.

It is my first time I am planning to engage someone for GFE and perhaps more.
I cannot do out call due to constraints.
Bit worried about incall as potentially I may be recorded and blackmailed.
Any guidance to overcomd hesitation will be welcomed.
Thanks

best guidance- read the hundred other " new seeking advice" threads.

sound advice

I think you're worrying too much.

Are you worth blackmailing, ie famous celeb, millionaire, politician..etc ?

I'm not :)

I really dont think you need to worry, I mean how will they know who you are ?

Right its not like you are going to show ID ....are you?

My advice is to meet someone with long experience. Many of us have been doing it for years and decades. So we rely on our reputation and repeat clients.

As a service provider who offers incalls, I would suggest you think about the woman you are visiting, she is in a far more vulnerable position, and in general we women are more likely to be victimised and blackmailed by clients who can:
* tell everyone where we are/ tell our neighbours or landlord
* post negative reviews
* secretly film the encounter and blackmail us.
* Rob us and be threatening and violent.

These things are real concerns, and they do happen, even though they are rare and most guys are lovely.

We ladies have to be careful and cautious whereas for you, you are just dropping in for a couple of hours and then walking away.

We would say that for your first pick a escort who is well reviewed and as said by others a veteran so to speak.

I totally agree with Deb on her post.

Despite I am still new to this working life style, the worries are always in your mind, but through experiences I would always follow my instincts, andi believe that works both ways (in my opinion)

I would suggest to have a friendly phone conversation with whom you ever wish to book, so you can have the chance to choose your WG by following your feelings afterwards.

Best of luck
Sofia x

Watch your hotlists on here and AW for a while. Then read reviews on ideally various independent punting forums. A lady who has been doing this for a while is a safer bet as you can generally tell they are a professional. If they are up to no good, it will only go on for so long before someone does a write up about them or they are reported somewhere, kicked off the site/AW etc. Generally steer clear of new profiles, or profiles that have been around for a while and not reviewed, profiles that have been around for a while and the pictures haven't been updated, profiles where the pictures are too heavily re touched (they might be fake). Spammy content could be a give away. Never keen on the phrase "new in town". Always makes me suspicious. Basically, learn to read between the lines and think before you book.

Whats the more than GFE ?

How not to get blackmailed.

1. use a burner phone
2. Don't take your wallet
3. Don't pay a deposit by paypal or bank transfer (just dont pay a deposit)
4. Do't use your personal social media to correspond.