ArcticFlower
Client
177
posts. Member since
Mar 2022
5th Jan '24 - 16:16PM
After another underwhelming appointment I have decided that I have learned my lesson and will be applying the following policies.
The price range I go after will no longer be 120-150 but 140-150. The latter is what I consider "reassuringly reasonable" at this time but with inflation it may yet change. I am done with girls who put their price low to bait a client with low standards or to get away with a bait and switch.
If I see they're not the one in their photos then I walk away. An older and heavier woman can be a fun time but I'm only doing this so often and I am not rewarding professional dishonesty. If they chose flattering pictures or have put on some weight since the photo, I don't mind that so much. They're only humans trying to earn a living.
If an escort has be wait an extra 15 minutes before beginning, that's fine as my upper limit. But if the time of the appointment comes and I still don't have a room number or some other kind of communication within 5 minutes, I walk.
On that note, I will not tolerate bad communication at all now. Forgetting to send the address until prompted is basic human error. But me texting on monday and getting no confirmation until friday saying "I'm free" will receive a response along the lines of "so am I and I won't spend it with you".
Also, imagine I am so much of an idiot that I cannot find that exact door after having the full address and she phones me (it's happened before). Then she says something like "it's not that hard!", my response will be "then your smarter clients can keep you". An escort is more than a willing body; they are a host, a short-term companion. I am thick skinned against the people at my job because I'm paid to be there. When I'm paying I expect the same standard of basic niceness. I am not mean to escorts! Though I may defend myself reasonably against certain clients of my own...
Now this final one is classic patron advice: before handing over the money, summarize what you believe the payment entails. Just because they told you over text you get "lip kiss" doesn't mean they will come through after the point of no return (handing over the money). Once, someone I thought was independent turned out to not be the person I communicated with over the phone. She was with an agency! I should have specified the OWO and when she explained the situation I should have just walked. (Run, rather, I fear a pimp would chase me).
So if you are thinking about your first or second experiences, please remember these things I wish had been said to me (some of it was in all fairness).
The price range I go after will no longer be 120-150 but 140-150. The latter is what I consider "reassuringly reasonable" at this time but with inflation it may yet change. I am done with girls who put their price low to bait a client with low standards or to get away with a bait and switch.
If I see they're not the one in their photos then I walk away. An older and heavier woman can be a fun time but I'm only doing this so often and I am not rewarding professional dishonesty. If they chose flattering pictures or have put on some weight since the photo, I don't mind that so much. They're only humans trying to earn a living.
If an escort has be wait an extra 15 minutes before beginning, that's fine as my upper limit. But if the time of the appointment comes and I still don't have a room number or some other kind of communication within 5 minutes, I walk.
On that note, I will not tolerate bad communication at all now. Forgetting to send the address until prompted is basic human error. But me texting on monday and getting no confirmation until friday saying "I'm free" will receive a response along the lines of "so am I and I won't spend it with you".
Also, imagine I am so much of an idiot that I cannot find that exact door after having the full address and she phones me (it's happened before). Then she says something like "it's not that hard!", my response will be "then your smarter clients can keep you". An escort is more than a willing body; they are a host, a short-term companion. I am thick skinned against the people at my job because I'm paid to be there. When I'm paying I expect the same standard of basic niceness. I am not mean to escorts! Though I may defend myself reasonably against certain clients of my own...
Now this final one is classic patron advice: before handing over the money, summarize what you believe the payment entails. Just because they told you over text you get "lip kiss" doesn't mean they will come through after the point of no return (handing over the money). Once, someone I thought was independent turned out to not be the person I communicated with over the phone. She was with an agency! I should have specified the OWO and when she explained the situation I should have just walked. (Run, rather, I fear a pimp would chase me).
So if you are thinking about your first or second experiences, please remember these things I wish had been said to me (some of it was in all fairness).
envyme
Client
10
posts. Member since
Feb 2020
5th Jan '24 - 22:13PM
"If I see they're not the one in their photos then I walk away. "
Time after time in so many threads you have stated that you dont want to see face photos, nudes etc in profiles as you like to be suprised, well you got suprised and not in a good way.
Time after time in so many threads you have stated that you dont want to see face photos, nudes etc in profiles as you like to be suprised, well you got suprised and not in a good way.
wildswimmer
Client
9
posts. Member since
Nov 2021
5th Jan '24 - 22:33PM
One lives and learns, well hopefully. Its taken the op a long time to get his head around "honesty in profiles", how to figure out real from fake and the dangers of social media, paying deposits bait and switch etc,but maybe he's just becoming enlightened.
Libertarian
Client
5
posts. Member since
Feb 2023
6th Jan '24 - 12:44PM
All you say articflower is fair and common knowledge for experienced punters, but well worth highling for the newbies.
ThomasPaine
Client
9
posts. Member since
Nov 2021
6th Jan '24 - 15:00PM
Hope you stick to your new years resolutions better than I do. 😂
Thesandman
Client
13
posts. Member since
Nov 2020
7th Jan '24 - 00:18AM
I have to ask you articflower why has it taken you so long to figure out and finally accept that no face pictures, no full body pictures and the use of social media are bait and switch and/or scamming ploys, you had been warned, counselled against your "suprise approach" about these things many times in an awful amount of threads ?
cluedup
Client
7
posts. Member since
Feb 2022
12th Jan '24 - 21:33PM
ArcticFlower wrote:
After another underwhelming appointment I have decided that I have learned my lesson and will be applying the following policies.
The price range I go after will no longer be 120-150 but 140-150. The latter is what I consider "reassuringly reasonable" at this time but with inflation it may yet change. I am done with girls who put their price low to bait a client with low standards or to get away with a bait and switch.
If I see they're not the one in their photos then I walk away. An older and heavier woman can be a fun time but I'm only doing this so often and I am not rewarding professional dishonesty. If they chose flattering pictures or have put on some weight since the photo, I don't mind that so much. They're only humans trying to earn a living.
If an escort has be wait an extra 15 minutes before beginning, that's fine as my upper limit. But if the time of the appointment comes and I still don't have a room number or some other kind of communication within 5 minutes, I walk.
On that note, I will not tolerate bad communication at all now. Forgetting to send the address until prompted is basic human error. But me texting on monday and getting no confirmation until friday saying "I'm free" will receive a response along the lines of "so am I and I won't spend it with you".
Also, imagine I am so much of an idiot that I cannot find that exact door after having the full address and she phones me (it's happened before). Then she says something like "it's not that hard!", my response will be "then your smarter clients can keep you". An escort is more than a willing body; they are a host, a short-term companion. I am thick skinned against the people at my job because I'm paid to be there. When I'm paying I expect the same standard of basic niceness. I am not mean to escorts! Though I may defend myself reasonably against certain clients of my own...
Now this final one is classic patron advice: before handing over the money, summarize what you believe the payment entails. Just because they told you over text you get "lip kiss" doesn't mean they will come through after the point of no return (handing over the money). Once, someone I thought was independent turned out to not be the person I communicated with over the phone. She was with an agency! I should have specified the OWO and when she explained the situation I should have just walked. (Run, rather, I fear a pimp would chase me).
So if you are thinking about your first or second experiences, please remember these things I wish had been said to me (some of it was in all fairness).
The price range I go after will no longer be 120-150 but 140-150. The latter is what I consider "reassuringly reasonable" at this time but with inflation it may yet change. I am done with girls who put their price low to bait a client with low standards or to get away with a bait and switch.
If I see they're not the one in their photos then I walk away. An older and heavier woman can be a fun time but I'm only doing this so often and I am not rewarding professional dishonesty. If they chose flattering pictures or have put on some weight since the photo, I don't mind that so much. They're only humans trying to earn a living.
If an escort has be wait an extra 15 minutes before beginning, that's fine as my upper limit. But if the time of the appointment comes and I still don't have a room number or some other kind of communication within 5 minutes, I walk.
On that note, I will not tolerate bad communication at all now. Forgetting to send the address until prompted is basic human error. But me texting on monday and getting no confirmation until friday saying "I'm free" will receive a response along the lines of "so am I and I won't spend it with you".
Also, imagine I am so much of an idiot that I cannot find that exact door after having the full address and she phones me (it's happened before). Then she says something like "it's not that hard!", my response will be "then your smarter clients can keep you". An escort is more than a willing body; they are a host, a short-term companion. I am thick skinned against the people at my job because I'm paid to be there. When I'm paying I expect the same standard of basic niceness. I am not mean to escorts! Though I may defend myself reasonably against certain clients of my own...
Now this final one is classic patron advice: before handing over the money, summarize what you believe the payment entails. Just because they told you over text you get "lip kiss" doesn't mean they will come through after the point of no return (handing over the money). Once, someone I thought was independent turned out to not be the person I communicated with over the phone. She was with an agency! I should have specified the OWO and when she explained the situation I should have just walked. (Run, rather, I fear a pimp would chase me).
So if you are thinking about your first or second experiences, please remember these things I wish had been said to me (some of it was in all fairness).
Do you think it has anything to do with your thing about surprise is best 😲 and discrete escorts are preferred 🤨?