Genuine punters?

I see punters wondering if any of us escorts are for real but WOW. Out of 50 inquiries 7 have been genuine. It's getting realy silly now!

And some wonder why we ask for pictures and deposits 🤦‍♀️

Any nice punters in Oxfordshire? 😆

It's a perennial problem. Time wasting punters on the one hand and fake escorts on the other. It's a pity their is no way clients and escorts can get together socially just to get to know each other. I hope things get better for you.

I've had my time wasted on many occasions it's something you learn to deal with, most of the time you can spot some tell tail signs on a profile but it must be difficult to detect a time waster as an escort with no profile to examine. I guess a certain percentage will always be disingenuous the best bet will probably be to talk with them but then that takes up more time ⚖️

Is there a way to adjust your profile to reduce time wasting?

How many of the 43 enquiries sent more than 1 or 2 messages? I'm interested to now the number of light time wasters vs heavy.

I feel your pain! I’m pretty good at spotting the morons now but sometimes they trickle down to irritate my day! I log every single one on CE though for the other ladies to avoid.

I’m sure you know, but requests for long bookings, overnights, whether you take big cocks, paying you more than your fee are all time wasters. If they email me I ask them to call me to discuss bookings but only if they have a definite day in mind. Sadly though, because of these idiots, I’m extremely blunt in emails. But the genuine ones will always know the reason you are and see you anyway!

That's it. I started being realy nice as I'd prefer to start off like that over being "all business" but now I'm like "only come back to me if you have a time and place" a few times I have checked numbers to see if they have been reported on CE and asked for deposit straight away to see what they do. They don't reply, as suspected but now I'm wondering what's the best way around this....... it's so frustrating. I do feel sorry for them though because they must be incredibly sad people

It’s a kicker when you’re professional about it, and these idiots ruin it for all the lovely genuine guys who want a lovely experience. The amount of no shows we get would make most women double book appointments, and it’s a tempting thought but no, I always try to keep things professional

It sounds like you're frustrated with the current situation regarding inquiries and authenticity. Unfortunately, dealing with a high volume of inquiries that may not all be genuine can be challenging. Asking for pictures and deposits is a common practice among escorts to ensure their safety and verify the seriousness of potential clients

Genuine clients often send one message with all the relevant info their name, age, time, and day they are interested in, how much they expect to pay. IIt's a simple process to book them in.
Time wasters ask a million questions and expect The Girl to keep chasing them for information - such as OK we have a day but what time?
Loads of messages exchanged is a red flag though it sometimes works out OK.

As a genuine client I send minimal messages, to confirm if any services have extra charges, and to ask for availability for a specific day and time. Finally to confirm on the day if booking ahead of time. Anything else I see as wasting both my time and that of the lady.