BevMan
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1st Oct '20 - 07:35AM
So interested on others views, so I finally made a booking, yes afraid it was outside of Birmingham, not ideal and a bit hit and miss! So booking made after reviewing profile, pics and rates, I was happy clearly to make booking, comms good and now good to go!
So I was advised by someone more experienced with escorts to only book 30 mins at first meet to ensure there is no hidden agenda, it’s the girl in the pics and all services shown are offered. But yes I ignored and went for the full hour, so turn up and the lady was very different to her profile pics, I would say looked 10yrs older and not all services were available, did ask but told not offered, yes I did check before booking and after and still shows as being offered! Was not going to start debate, guess I had to respect her likes but it did spoil the mood from my side, but stayed for the full hour and it was ok but I was looking to meet someone who I could see regular rather than moving around, but this will not be I will not be arranging any future meets with this lady.
I know people say, well you should walk, I guess yes I should - but thinking back to original advice, book 30mims first to ensure all is right, should I have done this, perhaps I am to nice but debating for any future booking.
What’s others views and opinions on this? Don’t want to name and slate the lady but her profile still shows likes that she doesn’t offer, well not to me on my meet, she genuinely seemed to enjoy our meet so don’t think it was anything against me, I believe she has either made a mistake advertising or knows and chooses to ignore, taking the gamble men will stay and not walk, well the pics are another debate!
So what’s your views, more on the 30 mins or hour booking?
So I was advised by someone more experienced with escorts to only book 30 mins at first meet to ensure there is no hidden agenda, it’s the girl in the pics and all services shown are offered. But yes I ignored and went for the full hour, so turn up and the lady was very different to her profile pics, I would say looked 10yrs older and not all services were available, did ask but told not offered, yes I did check before booking and after and still shows as being offered! Was not going to start debate, guess I had to respect her likes but it did spoil the mood from my side, but stayed for the full hour and it was ok but I was looking to meet someone who I could see regular rather than moving around, but this will not be I will not be arranging any future meets with this lady.
I know people say, well you should walk, I guess yes I should - but thinking back to original advice, book 30mims first to ensure all is right, should I have done this, perhaps I am to nice but debating for any future booking.
What’s others views and opinions on this? Don’t want to name and slate the lady but her profile still shows likes that she doesn’t offer, well not to me on my meet, she genuinely seemed to enjoy our meet so don’t think it was anything against me, I believe she has either made a mistake advertising or knows and chooses to ignore, taking the gamble men will stay and not walk, well the pics are another debate!
So what’s your views, more on the 30 mins or hour booking?
SinfulXAlexa
Escort
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1st Oct '20 - 23:32PM
I’m sorry this happened.
May I ask what services she has on her list but then didn’t do with you?
Could there be any reason she decided against doing them?
Usually I offer a variety of things but if someone is not how I need them to be for said services I will say I can’t do them.
I make it clear that if you want something included you have to be able to receive. Eg strap on. Or owo. A lot of people don’t arrive clean or even ask to use the bathroom. So I will decline doing those. But that doesn’t mean I don’t offer it, just not to you right this moment.
It’s very polite of you to have stayed and been respectful- which I’ve come o know you as being on here :)
And also it’s wonderful that you haven’t shared her name.
Maybe she was having a bad day- it happened to us more than people realise.
Also, was it just that she appeared older than her pics or was she actually older than the age she states on her profile?
It’s a awkward but some ladies do lie about their age.
If you paid extra for certain things and she didn’t do it then I’d understand the disappointment but either it’s down to just maybe not seeing her again.
So much weirdness going around with the virus, may that have impacted certain services?
Hope you’re okay! And I really hope you find someone local to spoil ;) you seem sweet so I can’t imagine why it ended that way!
May I ask what services she has on her list but then didn’t do with you?
Could there be any reason she decided against doing them?
Usually I offer a variety of things but if someone is not how I need them to be for said services I will say I can’t do them.
I make it clear that if you want something included you have to be able to receive. Eg strap on. Or owo. A lot of people don’t arrive clean or even ask to use the bathroom. So I will decline doing those. But that doesn’t mean I don’t offer it, just not to you right this moment.
It’s very polite of you to have stayed and been respectful- which I’ve come o know you as being on here :)
And also it’s wonderful that you haven’t shared her name.
Maybe she was having a bad day- it happened to us more than people realise.
Also, was it just that she appeared older than her pics or was she actually older than the age she states on her profile?
It’s a awkward but some ladies do lie about their age.
If you paid extra for certain things and she didn’t do it then I’d understand the disappointment but either it’s down to just maybe not seeing her again.
So much weirdness going around with the virus, may that have impacted certain services?
Hope you’re okay! And I really hope you find someone local to spoil ;) you seem sweet so I can’t imagine why it ended that way!
BevMan
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2nd Oct '20 - 17:25PM
Hiya, thanks for reviewing and commenting - the services were OWO and CIM, not saying I absolutely wanted them but nice to know there available, both were displayed on her profile, I also checked to make sure everything on like list was still available during a meet, she confirmed all was still available. I fully understand and respect people and if the say no then hey I understand, it was before we did paperwork she said what was not available, she mentioned both, I did say but they were displayed and I did ask at point of booking. Rather than make a scene just accepted her wishes, but bonus I suppose she offered DFK, which was available and taken! I know everyone probably says the same thing but I am clean and will always shower before I meet anyone, she even commented that I smell nice!
Her profile stated 26, pictures were good, but she was mid 30’s and pictures did not look like her, I know things change etc but she looked completely different!
Yes I guess an experience which won’t be repeated with this lady, but hopefully will find someone that I enjoy and they also appreciate my time, maybe a visit to Hatfield maybe needed very soon ;)
Her profile stated 26, pictures were good, but she was mid 30’s and pictures did not look like her, I know things change etc but she looked completely different!
Yes I guess an experience which won’t be repeated with this lady, but hopefully will find someone that I enjoy and they also appreciate my time, maybe a visit to Hatfield maybe needed very soon ;)
SinfulXAlexa
Escort
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Apr 2019
2nd Oct '20 - 18:42PM
I can’t comment on why she changed her mind, sometimes unfortunately it happens.
I always say it’s down to my discretion even once we’ve agreed.
I may not like the way someone smells or tastes but I still like their company so rather then throw the booking just amp up the other bits ;)
Would It wouldn’t hurt if you asked her politely over text? Not sure if you really care about excuses though lol.
If she made you feel welcome and you were happy with the rest of it, may just be bad luck that day. But the pictures not looking like her is a major no. I’d have suggested walking out ... your too polite.
It’s a two way street, you’re going somewhere you don’t know, and if she’s not what you expect that is dangerous for both you and her. Oof! Gutted for you but sound like you enjoyed the rest of it ;)
This is the thing with working during the virus... I personally don’t offer kissing right now,
Normally I would!
But yes you! Come and get yourself to Hatfield sometime... you know we’d have a gray time and I’ve got to show you my amazing oral skills ;)
Well so you’re on the search again, maybe don’t go with reviews so much, they tend to be not alway reliable(not a lot even know how to leave reviews or a booking lol)
Find someone who excited you when reading their profile and texts. Go from there, and stick to the 30min rule lol.
Take care of yourself sweetness xx
I always say it’s down to my discretion even once we’ve agreed.
I may not like the way someone smells or tastes but I still like their company so rather then throw the booking just amp up the other bits ;)
Would It wouldn’t hurt if you asked her politely over text? Not sure if you really care about excuses though lol.
If she made you feel welcome and you were happy with the rest of it, may just be bad luck that day. But the pictures not looking like her is a major no. I’d have suggested walking out ... your too polite.
It’s a two way street, you’re going somewhere you don’t know, and if she’s not what you expect that is dangerous for both you and her. Oof! Gutted for you but sound like you enjoyed the rest of it ;)
This is the thing with working during the virus... I personally don’t offer kissing right now,
Normally I would!
But yes you! Come and get yourself to Hatfield sometime... you know we’d have a gray time and I’ve got to show you my amazing oral skills ;)
Well so you’re on the search again, maybe don’t go with reviews so much, they tend to be not alway reliable(not a lot even know how to leave reviews or a booking lol)
Find someone who excited you when reading their profile and texts. Go from there, and stick to the 30min rule lol.
Take care of yourself sweetness xx
DanielleDelicious
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4th Oct '20 - 14:27PM
did you post a review ?
BevMan
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8th Oct '20 - 12:22PM
Hi thanks for the feedback, I didn’t complete a feedback, great shout, will think about completing- she clearly read my comment as I had a message offering a reason why all was not on offer! May just leave it at that but great shout about feedback!
AlexaLUXgfe, thanks for you kind words, yes will definitely paying you a visit! ;)
AlexaLUXgfe, thanks for you kind words, yes will definitely paying you a visit! ;)
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