Suppessas25
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30th Mar '21 - 02:44AM
Hi, all. Here is a subject that I have not yet seen raised here: virgins, or more specifically, virgin men seeking escorts in order to lose their virginity.
As someone in their mid twenties who is seriously considering pursuing such an avenue in the near future, I hope to gain more of an insight into a few areas:
1) How to identify a service-provider who is better suited to the inexperienced (for example, green- or red-flag signs to look for);
2) How to approach the subject in the initial e-mail to an escort (without appearing to use it as a special status to get discounts, for example (which appears to be a somewhat common occurance));
3) What to expect in terms of screening and other early communication; and
4) What opinions, from both a client and service-provider perspective, are held around virgins seeking experience in this way (for example, any (dis)advantages).
Any other advice or information is appreciated.
As someone in their mid twenties who is seriously considering pursuing such an avenue in the near future, I hope to gain more of an insight into a few areas:
1) How to identify a service-provider who is better suited to the inexperienced (for example, green- or red-flag signs to look for);
2) How to approach the subject in the initial e-mail to an escort (without appearing to use it as a special status to get discounts, for example (which appears to be a somewhat common occurance));
3) What to expect in terms of screening and other early communication; and
4) What opinions, from both a client and service-provider perspective, are held around virgins seeking experience in this way (for example, any (dis)advantages).
Any other advice or information is appreciated.
JuicyJan
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30th Mar '21 - 03:03AM
I definitely accept virgins as it’s a way to build confidence and let them explore what they like is the bedroom before embarking on a physical and emotional relationship
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Britishwildflower
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30th Mar '21 - 10:33AM
I think it's a very difficult area to negotiate tbh as it depends how you personally view losing your virginity. I would look for an escort who either has reviews or is listed on other sites as well to ensure that she is genuine. Perhaps someone who offers phone chat so you can get a rapport and feel more at ease before meeting.
I think mentioning it in a matter of fact way is fine although you may just wish to put inexperienced/nervous and explain more at a meet. A good escort will try to make every experience memorable, first or last. Worth noting that some service providers do not answer emails so calling or texting works better.
Everyone has a different screening process. Contact via a phone number is a key one. Read profiles and all the information required should be listed. If it isn't, a service provider should be happy to answer anything that isn't in her profile.
As I said at the start of this 'war and peace' answer lol, it depends how you view losing your virginity whether this is the option for you. Only you can know if it is right for you. I've slept with several virgins in my private life (including my current partner who was in his mid twenties when we met) and I specialise in helping nervous/inexperienced clients and it is perfectly okay to build up over a few sessions or get it 'done' in one as everyone is different. It's also okay to change your mind. You are paying for a service. Any questions feel free to email even if you're not near me I'll help if I can.
Hope you find someone nice :)
I think mentioning it in a matter of fact way is fine although you may just wish to put inexperienced/nervous and explain more at a meet. A good escort will try to make every experience memorable, first or last. Worth noting that some service providers do not answer emails so calling or texting works better.
Everyone has a different screening process. Contact via a phone number is a key one. Read profiles and all the information required should be listed. If it isn't, a service provider should be happy to answer anything that isn't in her profile.
As I said at the start of this 'war and peace' answer lol, it depends how you view losing your virginity whether this is the option for you. Only you can know if it is right for you. I've slept with several virgins in my private life (including my current partner who was in his mid twenties when we met) and I specialise in helping nervous/inexperienced clients and it is perfectly okay to build up over a few sessions or get it 'done' in one as everyone is different. It's also okay to change your mind. You are paying for a service. Any questions feel free to email even if you're not near me I'll help if I can.
Hope you find someone nice :)
Suppessas25
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30th Mar '21 - 15:34PM
@Britishwildflower
Thanks very much for taking the time to reply with all of that. That was all very helpful advice (even more so given that you have personal experience with the nervous/inexperienced).
I definitely concur with your advice about seeking well-reviewed service-providers and reading profiles thoroughly. That was a good point about contacting by phone, too. I will keep that in mind.
@JuicyJan
Thanks for replying, as well. I am pleased to see that you are open to the idea.
Thanks very much for taking the time to reply with all of that. That was all very helpful advice (even more so given that you have personal experience with the nervous/inexperienced).
I definitely concur with your advice about seeking well-reviewed service-providers and reading profiles thoroughly. That was a good point about contacting by phone, too. I will keep that in mind.
@JuicyJan
Thanks for replying, as well. I am pleased to see that you are open to the idea.
Suppessas25
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30th Mar '21 - 15:35PM
@Britishwildflower
Thanks very much for taking the time to reply with all of that. That was all very helpful advice (even more so given that you have very personal experience with the nervous/inexperienced).
I definitely concur with your advice about seeking well-reviewed service-providers and reading profiles thoroughly. That was a good point about contacting by phone, too. I will keep that in mind.
@JuicyJan
Thanks for replying, as well. I am pleased to see that you are open to the idea.
Thanks very much for taking the time to reply with all of that. That was all very helpful advice (even more so given that you have very personal experience with the nervous/inexperienced).
I definitely concur with your advice about seeking well-reviewed service-providers and reading profiles thoroughly. That was a good point about contacting by phone, too. I will keep that in mind.
@JuicyJan
Thanks for replying, as well. I am pleased to see that you are open to the idea.
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