First time/ terrible meet.

🥲just got home terrified and shaking. Now looking for safety advice. Re meetings out calls and keeping safe.

Sorry to hear that. There will always be a$$holes just looking to take advantage of newbies unfortunately. There are several sites to help with safety. I only know a few, others will know more. Pm and I'll send them x

I would tell a friend. There’s also on the find my iPhone app somewhere where ur friend can view ur location whenever you leave the house n stuff. That’s what I personally do. I would also get into your emergency contacts in your phone and set up hollygaurd. Holly gaurd is used for at risk women. So you bread a button so many times and it rings emergency services

that all sounds horrible, from what I have read there are forums like saafe and apps like clienteye and num that can help prevent this kind of thing.

Thank you all for replying. I am now feeling better. Planning safe meets from tonight x

hope its better now

I would say it’s important to trust your gut. If someone messaging you gives you a funny feeling don’t go through with it especially an outcall
Also arrange with someone that you will text them at a certain time and if you don’t they ring you and you can say you have to leave for an emergency

Gut (spider sense) is so important..trust it.

Scary, how common is it ?