Newbiiie

Hi everyone.

Inset up my profile earlier and within half hour I had a text on my phone. A gentleman wanting to meet. This is fine.
I just want to check, do any of you run any checks. All I have is a name and number?

I don't, they've always been from the site in my experience. I do check they read it all though and whether they have any other questions they're welcome to ask. Then I normally ask them they're age and why they're on the site, just to get a feel of who they are etc. X

OK I have asked quite alot of questions (poor man haha)
It would be at his house? Is this really stupid?

Also a silly thing, I worry what if they are really not someone I can do the business with. How do you handle that?

Hmm, hopefully other people will chip in as I haven't been doing this too long myself. I go with my gut. If you're unsure might be worth a phone chat? You can gauge people a little better? I don't drive so tend to do in calls. I think if I were to do an outcall I'd maybe have like a panic button. Plus my friends make me message them at the start and end of meetings so they can keep an eye out, you could send a friend the address so you're covered.
If I was there and I wasn't feeling it, I would be honest and say that or to save some asshole getting angry you can always say you're too nervous to go through with it??
Hope this is somewhat helpful xx

Run his number through the lists. There are several UK sites to help

The lists of all phone numbers that exist? You know he has one...

They are on the site to buy consensual sex. What else?

I would never book an escort that asked me that.

The lists that help keep us safe. Why feel the need to post that?

Do any of you ask for pictures. If I'm getting into a car with someone I like to know what car they are driving and to know what they look like. ..... can you imagine