Rejecting

I'm not sure how to put this but I hope I will be understood. Do any of you say no to clients Purley based on something like race?

In general I don't mind but I'm wary when I get contacted by black males or more specifically illegal immigrants. I'm wary that sexual health isn't the best in all countries but in particular ones there is a high degree of sexually transmitted diseases and it concerns me. However, as a pleaser 😅 I feel bad

This is no way racist in the general sence. More a kin to not being agist and asking for a lady under....

No hun I think your valid I ask for STi tests or no bareback

Thank you. Does it have to be dated within the last month?

Yeah I ask for resent ones not longer than a month and tbh from that u will know how some men are because some off them have never taken one before

Thanks. You are soooo beautiful BTW xx

Thanks girl and so are u

Are u on any other platforms btw

No I'm super new to this. Can you tell 🙈 do you have any suggestions?

No I can’t lool and just don’t entertain people that want to talk a lot because they are just time wasters and if someone wants to book a week ahead take a deposit cuz again time wasters

You have been incredibly sweet and thanks for all the advise. Keep being you x

Thank you and good luck xx

You can reject any client, for any reason you choose. You are in charge of who you see.

I don't reject people on race but I do reject clients because they are too young, or because something they have said sets me on edge.
Trust your gut.

I would not tell them why they are rejected (except age)
I just tell them that I won't be a good fit and they should find someone else. And I'm very nice about it.

You have the right to reject clients for any reason but it is racist to assume black men will be more dangerous. And how can you tell who is and isn’t an illegal Immigrant? Do your due diligence and screen clients before a meet (there are many ways to do this that won’t alienate or offend clients who genuinely want a meet).
If you want to minimise your customer base, that’s up to you. Just leaves more of the polite, educated and lovely smelling black men for those of us who want to see them.

Please don't miss understand it isn't because they are black period. I'm not bothered about race. But we have a large population of men that are asylum seekers in the area and what bothers me are that 1 they are not used to our customers and cultures in regards to relations and the countries they come from have little in the way of sexual health education. I can tell with 99% certainty who they are for many reasons but the biggest being I live I an area where ethnic diversity is almost zero. Of course I don't just reject on assumption and clean black, purple, yellow and blue men and welcome on principle. But I'm not a fan of ignoring red flags that a population of people hold just because it looks bad. However, I am here asking the question because it does kinda make me feel bad but it still is a valid extra risk factor

Great response gurl.